Saturday, January 23, 2010

Feat over Fear


With the advent of New Year, the eve got with itself new hopes new aspirations. Yet, for few it must have been another new year of old fears. How frivolous the fears may be, it merely retains in mind. Occasions come where forgetfulness of such properties of fear makes one think of metamorphosis of oneself but suddenly with strong cold breeze touching ones forehead sometimes remind of those same forgetful things and thoughts of the past which was aspired to be forgotten. Then there is another shield of downbeat and unhelpful aura coming and going across the walls and creating the ambience of unconstructive and paranoid mood. Try explaining oneself a hundred times the mind has its own say and heart tends to follow what mind command, Enforcing to commit those mistakes of which repercussions are very well known. Phobias are such which tends to overpower ones strengths, support and sociable attitude resulting in solitary.

Nevertheless, the power is within. Fear is a part of human nature and that is why it exists. One cannot totally refrain oneself from it but with growth in thoughts and understanding can overcome it bit by bit. One needs to take care of oneself not because of the ongoing competency but for sheer will of loving oneself. The bit will certainly turn into a patch one day and no phobia will have the audacity to take over. One will be free of paranoid thoughts, unease mind and wedged body. Body, mind and spirit will embrace each other for a new boot of thought. The flowing breeze will now touch the forehead for liberating us from the vicious circle of sordid thoughts and welcoming the perfect feel for a beautiful life. Race and competency will be on its way but one will live the life of its own and keep the external influence on ablaze. There may be times when the past will stand like a mirror in front but one is still in bits to make the patch. It takes a little time but will carry the flame of hope all through. The walls will be clear of any unwanted ambience and the positive aura will take its place. Then there is no need to wait for a new year because each day will bring with itself new aspirations, new beliefs and new will!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Lost identity in glam shine!

FASHION TODAY is all about imitating and trying to impress others. Today, there are very few who significantly focus on retaining their original style, likes and dislikes. Individuals have entered a stage where enhancing one via someone else’s trend and calling oneself as “being original” has become a basic of human nature. On being caught, the word which surfaces on the horizon is “inspiration”. But what really matters is that if some one has the quality of setting an in-build trend and (by any chance) it doesn’t go well with others then why the general term used is “fashion-mistake” . Be it accessories, colors, shades, variety of materials and even the right kind of attitude is supposed to be worn well.

When we say life is all about us and we should believe in our perspective then does that perception means adopting someone else’s idea and blindly following it? Or rather this is basic idea behind an individual’s perception. Because following someone else becomes the easy way out rather than constructing ones own way, as it’s a challenge. The term fashion-mistakes are common in the glamorous industry. Where a celebrity is seen, keenly observed, critically analyzed and finally rated on the scale of 1-10. But then the most frivolous part is the critics who rate them are they actually qualified to do that? And by chance if there is any celebrity who co-incidentally turns out to be perfect then they are often termed as plastic.

So the point arises, are we habituated, looking out for fashion mistakes or we hunt to criticize for something or the other?

Every season brings with itself variety of colors, shades plentiful accessories cloth-materials and trends. However, what makes an individual outstanding is its personal choice and following of its own creativity.
There may be a day where a person wants be a rock star, someday glamorous, someday hippy and even other day simple but the matter of this fact lies when an individual implements on following up its own wish list. There is always a room for exposure and improvement as sitting on the fence is not the right option.

One can always try on simple modification in ones wardrobe, as “experiment is the mother of all invention," and who knows one just might be a trend setter by itself. Fashion fiesta is only celebrated with those who make their separate way by mere trying out on innumerable patterns, materials, shades and style. But certainly the most vital aspect is to venture as it will only add to your strength of credibility. This comes to understanding that following ones creativity doesn’t leads to any mistakes, because it’s only about experimentation. Let the criticism be made because as someone has rightly said that, “Good spirits always face opposition from mediocre minds.”